@kathyalex7783 years agoLadies, remember that if you have children with an emotionally immature, abusive, selfish, loser type of man, your kids will grow up thinking this behavior is okay and normal. Don't ever marry or have kids with a man that you wouldn't want being a role model for your kids! ...763
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@lavishlovergirl3 years ago"if a woman spends most of her time worrying about the money she does not have, how will she have time to fall in love?" These words hit hard 718
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@ioanafilipescu23273 years agoA masculine man dosen’t use his physical strength to control his woman. He does not abuse her in any way. Some men (who cannot be called men, ofc) think that this is ‘masculinity’, literally to control a woman ‘just because you can physically’. Which is the biggest sign of a coward. No man who is confident and content with himself and who had good role models in his family/life would ever feel the need to abuse his woman. He knows there is absolutly no need for that. And if things don’t work out, they separate, but never does he hit or insult her in any way. I am glad you mentioned that. ...382
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@szaszathebore80963 years agoRefers to women in derogatory names, women he’s knows personally and strangers. Shows how he feels about women in general 151
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@LadyJani2 years agoYes! We women have to stand together and raise the standard for all men. 99
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@saramayamura29953 years agorealizing that the guy i’m talking to isn’t high caliber at all... thanks lisa! 95
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@catbaril90723 years agosure I’m independent and shit, doesn’t mean I don’t want help, a supportive and helpful partner who WANTS to help 48
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@vintagelover22113 years agoIt sucks that this behavior is so rare now. I’m 19 so everyone in my age range acts like a little boy which is incredibly unattractive to me and not my cup of tea. I feel like I will never meet men like this 😰😰 215
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@ioanafilipescu23273 years agoIt’s really funny when you see men who quote versets from the Bible in order to tell women their role is to submit to men but they themselves are not leaders. Leadership and submission are very missunderstood (intentionally) by those ‘men’. And women who don’t love themselves are very often victims of such men. Knowledge (about narcissism, disorders etc) really is power. ...242
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@monolith943 years agoOne thing I have to say is that there is a difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. A high quality man isn’t afraid to call a girl out when she’s made a mistake. This is different than putting a girl down in order to establish dominance. ...68
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@szederlekvar3 years agoThank you. It reassured me that my ex who treated me real bad was really not worth it. Lying, disprespect, gaslighting, anger issues... I knew I was better off without him but this video helped me feel even less respect for him and happier that I got away. ...109
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@sumi49983 years agoI think something that's worth noticing: he might not be perfect, or have all of the qualities 100% BUT, he is aware that he isn't perfect, and is actually trying to become better. (Not saying he will, actually becoming better). If he isn't financially in a good place yet, he has a plan of action to get there, and you see it working. If he notices he hurt you in any way, or offended you, he works to fix it. Don't always look for perfection, you might meet your match a month before he becomes his highest version. Look for someone willing to be better. And working to be better. Also, he must want to do this, you shouldn't have to push him to be better. It should be an internal decision. ...70
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@alexandraeverafter10153 years agoIt is a tragedy that many beautiful and intelligent women get themselves into abusive relationships and ignore those red flags. I left my daughter’s dad while she was young enough not to think that is normal behavior. (He was selfish, didn’t respect my family and me, overreacted at my mistakes (even the smallest ones), behaved erratically, accused me of being selfish when I wanted to spend time with friends, was controlling to me, and spent his young years not having a real job, even as a student. He just wanted children way before becoming financially stable to “keep up” with his Korean peers.) She is in college now and has been happy growing up with Mommy and her grandparents, who are loving to her. (She doesn’t even respect her own dad either.) I am thankful for your videos so that I, as well as other darlings, will not make the same mistakes and will thus know who is a true gentleman who treats us like princesses.♥️💐👸🏻 ...72
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@OO-ct4hq3 years agoListening to this video is literally like listening to a subliminal, I was looking at my crush's picture while listening to you and as you repeat "a masculine man does this and does that..." I felt like he's already doing those things for me and it put me in a mental state which I felt like I'm flying. Thank you lol ...94
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@djshockafrica43303 years agoThis one I give to God, I'm on my levelling up journey, I pray He takes me into the environment where the high calibre man I need can find me. Thanks Lisa! 95
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@serious71793 years agoI lovvvveddd your first point: Does he respect you? A high-caliber man is never a woman-hater; he loves and adores our energy and wants us to shine. So many of my friends look at the external (looks, wealth, etc) instead of the internal. ...11
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@haileyharrison96523 years agoMy dad is all of these positive things you talk about. I’m so grateful I grew up with his example and I hope I find someone like him when I’m older. 17
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@brotherinprophetblakedevon60543 years agoAnd I had learned something about how I’ve been slipping, and great video, and your looking very great 71
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@lg81593 years agoAs a Dutch woman: every time I hear the word Courting I hear ‘korting’. (Means discount in my country) 😂😂 16
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@magdakidybinska61093 years agoI'm still on my path of learning who he is but from my experience so far, I feel a high caliber man is spacious and grounded, he's confident, but humble in a way he does not need to speak a lot to stand his ground, he knows what he wants and he can be both gentle and firm and strong, his mind is open but he's got his values and priorities set in order, his sexual energy is strong and balanced, he is able to control his strong desire and channel it where he wants. and he gets what he wants. ...13
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@kinndah25193 years agoI want to remind women that just bc a man helps you with small things, doesn't mean he'll help you with the larger things. Investing in you long term is something different, including being patient, nurturing and appreciative when you have his children or you're going thru health issues. They also need to respect your privacy. ...30
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@melissamelissa26033 years agoWatch out for guys who get offended if you double book (if you aren’t in a relationship yet). Guys do it all the time and there is nothing wrong with talking to more than one person to find someone that’s good for you. 90
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@MiaMichelucci0003 years agoWonderful content. I only wish I had this information when I was a teenager. I have made many mistakes with men and am doing lots of research on narcissism. 53
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@kimplung82503 years agowhenever my friends ask my type and i described them high calibre man (not even talking about his finance state yet), they would always said "be real, you read too much wattpad". well i did read many wattpad and novel stories. but im not asking for super young billionaire businessman. also.... is "perfect men" really only exist on stories? no man would be motivated enough to achieve those "perfection"??? is their standard to be a man that low??? ...33
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@a.b.24053 years agoExcuse me ma’am, but I need to know where you got that dress! I love your video already 🥰 122
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@michaelamaralaguiarmatos30833 years agoAs a man I can agree with most of this video. 9
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@sarah.marco8883 years agoAll of this is ❤️💯 im in a relationship with a man where i dont even have to reach out to my man.. I am always in a joyful receiving mode and he just pleases. But for a long time i was always in masculine energy and i realized this was the problem. When I started tuning into my feminine energy and tuned into joyful receiving, i attracted this really wonderful man into my life and he just keeps giving. Im just happy there are women like you here to guide us into getting it right 😊❤️ ...34
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@BibiBice3 years agoThank you for talking about narcissism and manipulative tecniques. It's an important thing, expecially when dating! If we are aware about these behaviours, we know how to handle the situation. In my opinion this is a topic that should be teach in school! ...25
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@dinahnicest65253 years agoMen who are too generous ALWAYS get used, and smart guys know it. When I was a waitress, one of the regulars was extremely generous, and I never saw him get used. He never asked any of us out, and he knew that waitresses can't afford to repay him. How did he do it? After a while I noticed he had 2 degrees of generosity. He was a good tipper to all of us, but those of us who frequently got special gifts, we were the ones who gave something thoughtful in return. Not just some free food. something we brought in just for him. If he's all give, and you're all take, then what you have is a sucker who just might give away the mortgage. ...9
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@kiravampira14563 years agoDating apps are a huge problem for high-caliber women, exactly because they make men feel like all they should do to get what they want out of us is press a button. I'll never understand why would any woman choose to go there, let alone a young one. ...42
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@Silverstar5123 years agoYour energy is so beautiful Lisa! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us! It's great to know what us ladies deserve & what kinds of rude, abusive, manipulative behavior we shouldn't ever put up with ever. Also great to see wonderful examples of high quality men showing up for women & upholding this high standard of being a high caliber gentleman! ...6
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@Alyssa-qp7io3 years agoThank you, thank you, thank you for doing a video on this! A very important and much-needed topic. 2
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@sskksshjigg97673 years agoThis hair length suits you so well!!!😍❤ 15
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@saranox73193 years agoOne immature selfish stingy loser said to me, after I told him he is not emotionally supporting me, That I need to be an "independant woman", boy bye. 😂 39
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@Flowvi0lett3 years agoGirl your hitting every nail on the head, love it 1
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@julianeserr46673 years agoThank you so much for those practical tipps Lisa!!🙏🏻 1
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@french_daily_cupcake173 years agoLisa, thank you for making this great video.💗 3
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@julieokoki94933 years agoThank you so much for this video ,its not just about money but character and patterns. 4
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@gerganakukleva84623 years agoEverything you say is on point as always 💕 9
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@marilynwarbis7224last yearA very informative video, thank you. And in my experience, a high calibre man does not necessarily present an eye-catching appearance. He may appear under-stated, and he could be overlooked. For long-term happiness, we ladies really must focus on a man's inner character rather than merely his outer presentation. ...5
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@maricelgund3 years agoPay attention to action not his words. Thanks Lisa 5
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@madelineasmr9263 years agoAll of these are so spot on. Taking notes 📝 3
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@LifestylewithGifty3 years agoThank you very much for this advices my dear Lisa :) 8
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@zaraali97583 years agoMy handsome man has all this signs 😉 he takes care of me and everything I need I love him❤️ great video thank you gorgeous 😘😘😘 8
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@nolongerhumannnnlast yearwow, thank you so much Lisa for reminding all the ladies and me to have high standard and treasure ourselves.
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@alexandrasemyanko37322 years agoThank you so much for your videos. I was married to low caliber man, and then dated another VERY low caliber man. I even realized the signs but still kept hoping he'd "change". Second one. First one I did not even realize until it was almost too late. I love how you dress, and old Hollywood Glamour is my LOVE!! ...2
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@Tophellokittylover3 years agoI’ve realized that, I am a high caliber man, even though I’m a woman hahaha 13
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@brigittewang18843 years agoNo sé cómo di con este canal, pero creo que dices grandes verdades. Gracias por compartirlas y saludos desde España! 6
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@outerspace70793 years agoThis video was incredible!!! Amazing video topic!!💕💕💕💖💖💖
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@viviennedunbar33742 years agoA man should start with the basic three Ps: Protect, Provide and Paternal: he always wants to protect and care for his woman, he wants to provide and create security with her and wants to be a father and family man. My husband is all these and always masculine and kind. He is never abusive. Needless to say we have been happily married for 25 yrs our grown children look to him as a role model. ...5
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@Lishamisha223 years agoWish I had your video when I started dating at 17. Solid advice 5
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@Sakura-ek6vo3 years agoI'll have to appreciate the perfect relatable movie scenes in between the video 🎬✨ Makes me understand & relate to it well ! 7
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@_ANDRA_013 years agoNot about today's video but are you gonna make a new belly dance tutorial any time soon ? You are the only person that really made me understand some dance moves(i m not a good dancer).I'd really like to embrace more this feminine activity and you are a great teacher 😊 ...18
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@whippedcream2442 months agoMost eye opening video I have ever encountered. Thank u❤
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@joylindadichamounix3 years agoThank you! I am almost 50 & have not been with anybody in years. I never knew what to look for & fell into traps of exactly what you described! 4
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@ericaa.20223 years agoThank you Lisa! You have been improving your videos every time. Hi from Brazil 🇧🇷❤ 17
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@KeiyaHood3 years agoI appreciate that you gave tips and did talk about yourself the entire time. Excellent video. Subscribed!!!!
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@melissaleigh30133 years agoLove this vid, instantly subscribed… there is just not enough femininity content in this world 1
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@fuzakali9083last yearThe guy I was dating for a year started out being high caliber. He was so chivalrous, protective and helpful, until about 8 months into to the relationship. We went on a short trip together and I started becoming more needy and fearful of losing him. He began losing respect for me and started criticising little things. He broke the relationship off a month ago. Ladies watch out and stay high value yourself now and forever! ...2
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@danirideau52563 years agoLisa, can you please do a video discussing your favorite books/pieces of literature? Love your channel! 💕📚 3
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@margarettasagala52803 years agoI must say this is a great video. Very logical and realistic. 1
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@isabella-hz5kb3 years agoI'M IN LOVE WITH THIS VIDEOS of feminity, high caliber men etc! I have a little bit of masculin energy, and watching this videos it conect me with my femenine energy instantly, i love it! and i'm learning a lot of how to choose a partner! thanks for your conten! ...
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@Sakura-ek6vo3 years agoThat's the topic I wanted 💀❤️ omg Lisa you're so cool! Tysm ❤️ 11
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@FairyGodMuvaNina3 years agoThis was wonderful thank you Lisa and I pray your channel continues to grow! You’re a lovely feminine divine Princess! Glad you are teaching women to know their worth! 🌹🙏🏽🌹♥️ 4
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@juliabogan85093 years agoLisa, thank you so much for this video, I love it and it's another conformation that I'm being courted by a high-caliber man. Also, have you done a video on how you do your makeup and hair, because I love it! 9
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@AnnissaMWlast yearMerci Lisa! J’adore tes vidéos et tu es d’une incroyable maturité malgré ton jeune âge. Bravo! 💙 1
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@shymaahesham88193 years agoThanks alot for this video ... love from egypt ❤❤ 1
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@raquelt53423 years agoUgh 😩 I loved this video sooo much 🥳💞💞💞 thank you! 😘
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@gargantoixx96913 years agoI support you totally! I like your videos! Please keep on 😍
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@aellis88993 years agoOh my goodness, just found your channel! I absolutely LOVE your content! Xx
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@itn-nq5tn3 months agoGod bless you Lisa for preaching the truth, those who've got ears to hear please hear the truth. It's high time for the excellent ones to have and cherish an awesome healthy relationship with their excellent loved one in righteousness, peace and truth. ❤ ...1
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@jaciyara51813 years agoI love that you chose to put Don Draper in your thumbnail. Superficially he appears to be a high value man, but when you watch Mad Men you really recognise what a tortured miserable man he actually is. He uses, disrespects and abuses women left and right, being mean and insecure. ...30
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@BuCuInspo3 years agoLove everything you are teaching. Thank you! New sub here 🥰
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@danacarter23433 years agoThanks Ms. Lisa. These were awesome tips.... I got more than 12 but hey I was listening to every word, lol
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@user-pz2vk9yw6h3 years agoIt can be hard to figure these out all on your own, especially when everyone you have access to thinks it's totally fine to split the dinner bill, lol. I very literally have been looking for just exactly this type of list this week, I had even searched through your channel a few days ago to see if you already had one. So happy it's here now. ...26
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@riversong99673 years agoGreat channel 👌🏼👌🏼Please make a video about confidence tips, or is there any video that you could recommend for having better confidence?
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@amyliataylor3 years agoToujours aussi jolie ! Merci pour cette vidéo 💕 5
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@PrairieEmpress3 years agoI’m just realizing that my man used to have these toxic traits from women he dated in the past, now I’ve been noticing he’s changing bc of me❤️ I’ve seen him to become a better gentleman for Me because he cares a lot about me and he treats me like a princess. He’s starting to discover that masculine part of him that makes a him high caliber man. And it also depends on what type of woman you are and when you show him how you like to be treated and how you are used to be treated always ...12
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@sabinekreuz3 years agoyou are explaining everything very clear. VEry good . Thank you.
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@billhoward40823 years agoLove that summer dress, as well as these gems you dropped here, Lisa, darling!!) 💞🦅🦌 1
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@cherika1000last yearFantastic advice and true 🎯 My truly loving me, always caring about me, absolutely devoted to me wonderful man is exactly that, my high calibre man and I truly love him too 🎯🧚🏼♀️❤ 2
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@KayAlexandria2833 years agoHi Lisa! Thank you for making this video! I used to think that these signs only meant that he’s not interested and had nothing to do with his character (or lack there of) I feel so much better about myself after watching this video because I would just take these signs as if every guy who is not interested will do this, and it’d be my fault for not being good enough to have his interest for being treated like this. I’ve been working on building my self-esteem so that I won’t put up with men like this, because after watching your video I don’t believe a high caliber man would treat someone like this even if he’s not interested, he’ll handle things in a better way (I could be wrong). Thank you for making this video! It really helped me ...6
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@megamoneyk3 years agoAny man who wants you unhappy is sick in the head. 6
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@femininebritaneyburnett89043 years agoThanks very much....☺️😊❤️❤️for the messages .....
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@kaitlinestrada3 years agocan you make another video for young woman who are in their late teens/college age ? also i love ur videos 💕 2
مقاطع الفيديو ذات الصلة على 12 signs that a Man is NOT a High Value Masculine Man:
These words hit hard 718
Don't always look for perfection, you might meet your match a month before he becomes his highest version. Look for someone willing to be better. And working to be better. Also, he must want to do this, you shouldn't have to push him to be better. It should be an internal decision. ... 70
well i did read many wattpad and novel stories. but im not asking for super young billionaire businessman. also.... is "perfect men" really only exist on stories? no man would be motivated enough to achieve those "perfection"??? is their standard to be a man that low??? ... 33
When I was a waitress, one of the regulars was extremely generous, and I never saw him get used. He never asked any of us out, and he knew that waitresses can't afford to repay him. How did he do it? After a while I noticed he had 2 degrees of generosity. He was a good tipper to all of us, but those of us who frequently got special gifts, we were the ones who gave something thoughtful in return. Not just some free food. something we brought in just for him. If he's all give, and you're all take, then what you have is a sucker who just might give away the mortgage. ... 9
Makes me understand & relate to it well ! 7
And it also depends on what type of woman you are and when you show him how you like to be treated and how you are used to be treated always ... 12
My truly loving me, always caring about me, absolutely devoted to me wonderful man is exactly that, my high calibre man and I truly love him too 🎯🧚🏼♀️❤ 2